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Saturday, February 25, 2012

So it is difficult for the child's parents arranged for being too pampering

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Spoil the child was not injured. But if too much, what with the mother of three children, could it happen to you. The mother felt her son turned into a "monster".

The British woman was shocked when I saw them suddenly very angry. The boy threw his legs up on the table. The reason? Just because there is a green vegetable fried noodles.

"Mother, you know, I do not like it, why put it there," cried the child. The mother tried to calm the anger of the child. But it happened, her daughter was actually dump noodles on the floor.

Anger is certainly what his mother is sad. But he did not blame anybody. The mother knew that she and her husband, just as some parents from the middle class in general always have an excuse to indulge their children.

Parents who wish their children would spoil the child is not always angry. So rather than address the child's anger, they chose to serve, what is so kemauannnya.

Phillip Hodson are of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy recognizes children now in a position to get more easily stressed and angry. "You feel in with as much information eskpos excessive television, computer games, helplessly and hold a cell phone that reads," Phillip said as quoted in the Daily Mail.

All of the above is what children are easily stressed and angry. Therefore suggested Phillip seek active children.

"Keep it up active! Make them off the couch, even if it's only up and down stairs several times," he said.

If it turns out the kids for a child who is already active, try to get your parents to look in the mirror. Who knows, you and your husband, it turns out that the transfer of stress and anger in children.

"Children are very good mimic. If you are a grumpy, chances are you also like to educate children," said Phillip.

Children who are easily disturbed because his parents spoiled, it can also occur due to lack of time for them. Parents who both work, have no long time to spend with their children. The children were ultimately dependent on the caregiver or the person who feed him.

If that happens, the parents feel guilty. When children are little, what should not be, parents felt it was because of them, so that justification is made.

The parents ignore it with the attitude that children do not have. Although the orangua indifferent, became more and more into the relationship of the child. The child really wants to make his parents' attention.

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